IMPORTANT!! Please Read and Reply to Poll

[Jims]

We want to see how many of our members have loved ones serving long-term sentences. In addition to the poll question, if you would like to also answer the year your inmate was incarcerated, the length of his/her sentence, and his/her institution, it would be very helpful.

Thank you.

[Jims]

My inmate has been incarcerated since 1978. He was 17 years old and is serving LWOP at Menard.

[Scout]

My inmate has been incarcerated since 1991.  He was 27 years old and is serving LWOP at Stateville.

[jlnjy]

My inmate was given concurrent sentences with the longest length 70 years. Serving half of that is 35 so I answered 40. He's been incarcerated since he was 18 years of age. We still fight for his release. He's currently at Big Muddy.

[Kamama]

My loved one has been incarcerated since 1992. He´s serving LWOP and is at Stateville.

[MrsHonniB]

My loved one has been incarcerated since 1986,he was 22 at that time. Serving LWOP in Pontiac.

[galstone34]

My heart goes out too all of you, thank you for your much needed support and genuine caring to us whose inmates will be getting out. Your help is priceless!!

[Schrader42]

M has been incarcerated since 1982 at the age of 19 and was given 70 years so he must serve 35.  He's in Dixon and still has another 8 to go.  Still fighting for his release though.

[kah2006]

My son was sentenced to 40 years at 85%. He has been incarcerated since 2003.

[ielene]

My son was sentenced to 75 years at Stateville, he was 22 years old. He has been granted a new trial. I will take the poll after his trial and pray that his sentence has been at least reduced.

[JDsMom]

((((((((((((((((((((((BIG OLE HUG)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am always in awe of those of you who endure this for so long.......my heart and prayers are always with you & your loved one.........
Rett

[RJs Mom]

I too am in awe of you who have lived the nightmare of having your loved one torn away from you not knowing if or when they will be able to come home. You are awesome folks and I am very fortunate to have met you all..... you are true inspirations....

[Jims]

Only 12 members have replied to this poll so far. Surely there are more members with long-term inmates?

[without_him]

mine has been incarcerated since 1968

[RT]

My heart goes out to those with long sentences. And I thought I had it bad with a 4 and a 2 year. There is alot to be said about a family that sticks it out behind the inmate doing time like you all are discussing. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Rick

[mamas#1son]

My Son was sentenced for 30 years,

 
He went in 2004


and he is at Menard.

[ielene]

My inmate has been incarcerated since 1991.  He was 27 years old and is serving LWOP at Stateville.

I haven't replied yet as I don't want no bad karma. As soon as the trial is over I will hopefully be clicking on the first option. Better yet no option.

[Jims]

Ielene - we're all keeping our fingers and toes crossed that you will not have to select any of the options at all! The end of a nightmare for you and your family.

[ielene]

Thanks Jim's, I am hoping for the best but preparing for the worse. I just hope things start rolling soon. Stateville says they will only hold his belongs till October, I would hate to have to repurchase all those electronics.

[Sister]

My brother is serving a 40 year sentence.  He was 29 when he was arrested.   He has been inside for a little over 4 years.

[griz bear]

  my son got 22 yrs and has been incarcerated since 2007; so he must serve 11; his first attempt for appeal at the 4th district is being worked on as we speak.....if he's granted a new trial we are hoping for atleast a shorter sentence.......my thought and prayers are with those with these long sentences........it is a nightmare for all of us...but we find strength in each other griz

[PrettyBrwnEyes]

My husband is serving a 33yr sentence and caught another case while in. So he also has another 4yr sentence to run consecutively. He has been in since 1991 when he was 18. IF he would have stayed out of trouble he would have been out. Both cases where ages ago (91 & 93) back when you have to do at least 50% of your time.

[babybabybaby]

Jim's, my old man has been down since 1993, doing lwop at Menard.

[Esmom]

my son went in when he was 16 in 1997 he has LWP

[still]

I will hold off on answering this as I don't want to say anything that could influence or create bad karma for the upcoming months.

[jeminirose62]

Hello my son was sentenced to 28 yrs must do 85% so 23 yrs. He was 27 when sentenced in 2007 he is at Menard. I pray everyday that I will be alive to see my son walk out of that hell hole and back into the comfort of my home.

[Dazzler]

   My heart just breaks for you Moms whose sons are serving such very long sentences.  But they are all so lucky to have you by their sides.  I don't know how I'd bear the heartbreak.  But, I'm very happy so many of you have found each other for support.

[Kinnysbaby]

my husband has been in since 1991 and has 15 yrs more to go he is at Danville

Cherokee

[tina]

hi, i know that this is a poll blog,but for all the people here with lwop loved ones , I hope you don't mind me asking, but  do they get contact visits ?? or behind glass, my loved one may be going to menard or pontiac , i had asked else were on the site, but i thought maybe all of you would know for sure, due to your loved ones already being there.
 sorry if i am intruding, hope i am not breaking any rules, ( I am new to all this, trying to get prepared for worse case ) thanks for any help.
one more question : are they allowed to marry ? i have heard no, and only if 20 yrs or less. thanks again.

[Lissa]

Mine has been in since 2005 and was given 60 yrs.

[Scout]

Inmates serving LWOP do get contact visits, unless they're at Pontiac, which has no contact visits.  That's supposed to change, but I've been hearing that for years.  I don't believe you can get married in any of the max joints if the inmate has over 20 years...that can be challenged but most won't due to fear of retaliation.

[tina]

Hi there, I am sorry, and hope I am not being a pain, but my loved one said i may have worded it wrong, so here goes:  Does anyone that has a loved one on death row or who has natural life - in Menard,Pontiac or statesville get contact visits,   ( i am sorry for my true ignorance, but is LWOP the same as natural life ???? )  I am completely new and really have no idea what the difference is ???   I am hoping to get info from others that have loved ones already in that situation. Any info would be greatly appreciated.

[myrrh]

My 20 yr old daughter is awaiting trial, and will hopefully be acquitted. But she faces a LONG time should she be found guilty of the charges. Meanwhile, she/we wait...

[HisGirl]

Could be 25 years, but he is still in court. He has already served 10. I am praying, believing, and willing to fight in any way possible for the Elderly Sentence Adjustment to be passed. Wiling to fight fair and legal of course---not only for mine, but for all the others that truly want to change their lives.

[Scout]

Hi there, I am sorry, and hope I am not being a pain, but my loved one said i may have worded it wrong, so here goes:  Does anyone that has a loved one on death row or who has natural life - in Menard,Pontiac or statesville get contact visits,   ( i am sorry for my true ignorance, but is LWOP the same as natural life ???? )  I am completely new and really have no idea what the difference is ???   I am hoping to get info from others that have loved ones already in that situation. Any info would be greatly appreciated.

I hope I can make this more clear for you.  All inmates at Pontiac get non-contact visits.  That's a result of the state moving that towards a seg unit many years ago and all contact visits were removed.  That may change as a result of lawsuits but probably not any time soon.  All death row inmates are housed at Pontiac so they are also non-contact, but they will remain non-contact (I believe) should contact visits resume there.

All other inmates serving LWOP (which, btw, is natural life) receive contact visits at Menard and Stateville, unless their classification prevents that (ie seg status or high escape risk).  I hope that answers your question.  Let me know if you need further clarification.

[rhondarenee]

My fiance has only been in since 2004 but he is doing 27 years at Menard for murder.

 

[wanlee]

My son was sentenced to 30 yrs.  He is at Graham. He's been there since 2001. 

[His Angel18]

My inmate was sentenced to concurrent sentences with the longest one being 75 yrs. So I chose 40.  But has to serve 35.  In since 1996 , 23 yrs old at time of his incarceration and currently at Menard.
               His Angel18

[neighbor]

Your poll doesn't have an option for my friend, so I checked LWOP.

He was incarcerated in 1977 (C-number) with a 30-year sentence, paroled in 8/2004, violated in 10/2006. Was finally "released from IDOC" in 12/2007 but taken to Rushville, where he is housed with 300+ other men with a snowball's chance in hell of seeing the outside again, except when being transferred to court to have another status hear and continuance.

[humbird37]

My son was given a sentence of 20 years. Suppose to serve 85%! Like others we are fighting this with God leading us! It has been less then a year for him and us, and praying God will intervene on his behalf......

[lovingmy929]

Well I say we must pray for all those that have long sentences. We must pray for all the families as well for strength and comfort through these days ahead.

My husband is in Menard serving natural life but we won't go down without a fight. I will continue to stand by his side and we shall conquer this battle . So please stay that supportive magnet that they need, be encouraging and let them know you love them.  We all have good and bad days but they need us now more than ever.

[jsangel]

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[Hellinois]

Length of time one has been inside.....
40 something years.
Time remaining on sentence.....
LIFE.

[westerly]

My son was 25 when he was arrested in 2006.  He sat at DuPage until his sentencing in May of 2008.  He was given 31 years at 85%.  He is currently at Pinckneyville.

[ielene]

My son was sentenced to 75 years a few days ago

[Dazzler]

   So sorry to hear the outcome ielene....just know we'll be here to support you....

[ielene]

Thanks, you all was with me the last 4 years and got me through some hard times. I am very thankful to IPT and all that keep it going.

[jsmom]

Another  Ielene!!!

[RJs Mom]

  Ielene    I am so sorry to hear the outcome. If I can do anything just let me know

[still]

Ielene,

You and your son are in my thoughts and prayers.

still

[jlnjy]

 

Ielene, I did see the headline Friday morning on the newstand. (Not sure when it ran in the newspaper) I could only see out of one eye at the time -Friday morning- (I was buying eye drops in the store) and I've been sick ever since and haven't been on the pc much, let alone anywhere else. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you recognize how much you have contributed to IPT. Your efforts are greatly appreciated. With that said, know that what you do comes back to you. Goodness will be repaid. IPT is reciprocal ...but so is life, and frankly, I think you're due for some of that goodness.

[Esmom]

Ielene, I know there are no words to help the pain you feel after the sentencing of your son. It has been 11 years today that my son got LWOP. I can say the pain is not as raw and painfull as it was 11 years ago but there are days that prayer is all that gives us relief. Always have hope that the laws will be changed and our son's will someday come home. I do feel your pain and will always add you and your son to my prayers. 

[Hellinois]

Sending out our thoughts and prayers to you!   

[ielene]

Thanks everyone.

My boy is doing quite well considering, he is looking forward to a hug, a window and vending machine food, oh and a pair of shoes . Even though he will be getting a different lawyer for appeals his lawyer still plans on doing what he can. He is a great lawyer who really cared about my son and family, believe it or not.

Thanks again for all your kind words.

[Alvaroslady]

My friend has been incarcerated since 1999....he has 11 more years, he is 30 now....we have to be strong for the rest of the time and pray he can get parole soon.

[humbird37]

Ilene....I am so sorry and sad to hear the news about your son....surely this isn't the end of the line?  You know...I am a firm believer that God, if he is willing, can change the situations with our sons.  I am sitting here crying for you....but then I am close to tears most of the time anymore! My son is 42 years of age, but is still behind in his development! He was sentenced to 20 years in Jan. of this year.....so I do know how you feel. Don't give up....keep praying, and I will pray with you....love and prayers....Ruby (humbird)

[jonesgirl]

My Husband has been incarcerated since 1995 13 years to date ( since the age of 18) serving a 35 year sentence. We anticipate his release in 2013.

[jeminirose62]

My LO is serving a 28 yr term has been in since 2006 and is currently at Menard. I pray everyday that I will live long enough to see him walk out of that place in 2029. Seems like a life time way. He is such a young man he will be 28 on Dec 22. I miss my son.

[ielene]

jeminirose62, I understand. It is hard to be in your child's life and for it to be taken from you. I miss my son so much and with holidays coming up soon makes it so much harder. At least we have others going through the same thing to lean on when we need it. Hang in there.

[humbird37]

I hear you both, and certainly can feel your pain....my son has been incarcerated for 10 months, and it seems like a lifetime! It will be much longer if we can't get something done......the hurt is so awful, but God does make it bearable.....humbird

[HisGirl]

We must pray and certainly do all we can to fight for either the return of parole or for a suitable alternative for those who are capable and willing to get there lives on the right track. Not only for the sake of humanity, but to take the financial burden off the tax payer and reduce overcrowding. There are too many in prison that don't really need to be there and could be rehabilitated. It is for these things and our loved ones we must fight. I pray for peace for all that have loved ones, especially children in prison during the holidays. I have gone through this for many years and I know how heart breaking it can be. Don't give up hope. Fight.

[KSwife]

 

My Husband was 18, 21 when he was sentenced to a total of 140 years for 5 counts, all to run consecutive under the 50% law. He has been at Menard since 1998. I chose 40 years because they didn't give him life, even though it feels like it. We continue to research and fight for his release.

[codyandbecca]

i really do feel for anyone that has a loved one that has to be in prison or away from them for that matter for that long. i thought my husbands 10yr sentence at 85% was bad but his is for a crime he did not commit but anyways i really do feel for you all and my heart and feelings go out to you all. god bless you and stay strong cause you both are gonna need it. love becca

[lovinchris]

My dad has been incarerated since 1990 he was sentenced to 40 years at 50% 20 to serve. He is currently in Dixon.  It's been a long journey ya'll!! His wife passed away a few years back But still he stayed strong!  We are all waiting on his release next year 

between my dad and my man it's been a rough ride

My prayers are with all of you!!

 

Lovinchris

[jtinsley]

God Bless all of you. I feel like a big baby as I am dying without my husband and he went in August 2008 and will be out in May 2009. My heart goes out to all of you--I'm doing all in my power to get him out sooner as there is such a big part of me that feels lost without him--I can't imagine what you are all going through. Keep your strength--you are all doing such positive things sharing your knowledge/experience with others!

[sheilaM]

my loved one was sentence to 20 years.. in December of 07 is it true that he has to serve half of the time sentenced..

[sweetness]

My has been in for 27.5 years, but hopefully we will get a new trail this year. He has lost his mum and his son and several other relatives.

[scudder5]

sheila, if it was a crime of violence he must do 85% of his time, otherwise he will get day for day plus his two three month blocks of good time, and then extra good time for classes and stuff if he chooses to take them but i know for sure any violent crime and a few others they must serve 85% of their sentence.

[humbird37]

Hi....my son was sentenced to 20 years at 85%, on circumstantial evidence (just had to throw that in) Never been in trouble before......he has served 15 months. We are fighting, and know God is in control, even if IDOC thinks they are.....humbird

[Nemdf]

My brother was sentenced to 80 years.  He has been in since age 17 in 1988.  Both of his parents have died.  I am the only one of his five siblings to ever visit him in almost 21 years. 

[Felicity]

I wasn't exactly sure how to respond to your poll, since none of the four choices matched either of my inmates, so I chose "40 years" since that was the closest. My fiance was in CCDOC for four years & was just sentenced to 35 years this year. His parole year is 2040, but we have started the Appeal process. We're not disputing guilt. We're just disputing the degree of the charges/conviction. He is currently in Menard. My fiance's & my best friend accepted a plea agreement of 75 years in 1996. No appeal was ever considered. I am completely & utterly lost without my fiance, who is also my best friend in the whole world. Peace, Felicity

[Felicity]

Sorry...I forgot to share that my fiance's & my best friend is in Pontiac, but he will hopefully be approved soon to be transferred to a medium security prison. His parole year is 2032. He is our soul brother. Peace, Felicity

[Mrs. Williams]

My LO was sentenced to 60 yrs has to serve 50 % has served 30+ he was 17 at the time of crime. He is here in Florida on an interstate compact. He is from Illinois, Springfield. He was recently transferred on a good time transfer to be closer to me. When he reached his transfer destination and went in to see his classification officer, he asked my LO what was he still doing in prison. It shows by the calculations that my LO has been in over his sentencing time. He has assigned a Sentencing Specialists to look into the calculations. But, we have also connected with a really good friend of my LO who has come down to Florida and visited my LO and has taken back info to Illinois in our behalf. It sounds promising and I know if anyone can help us I knew it'd be God himself  . I ENCOURAGE each and everyone to hang in there and don't give up..... Know that the God we serve don't sleep, he tests our faithfulness and makes us better because of our trial. He allows us to turn our test into Testimonies, and our mess into Messages, for God to get the glory. I mentioned in my previous post that I would keep you all informed.

There is a little something that us here in Florida needs from you here in Illinois. Our LO's is in need of our help because the food conditions are absolutely horrific lately. They have cut back on the foods they get, and the prices on the canteen foods has all but tripled. We here in Florida on our website FPT wants to start a petition to get the prices lowered. How can we do this. I know this may or may not be the right place to post but, I need an answer soon. It is costing our LO's families so much money on top of the cost for gas, lodging (if your coming a long way and staying two days), feeding them on the visits, ect... We here in Florida need some Sisterly and Brotherly love from you all here. I have bragged about your Forums because truly you all here are truly connected and are genuinely boned by love for each other. Any help would be greatly apprectiated. My sincerest prayers goes out to each and everyone of you. Keep the faith, keep praying and Never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever...... give up.

One Love

Mrs. Williams 

[Missplaymate618]

Well I must say my heart goes out to each and every one of you! I feel horrible thinking about my LO being away for so long, he was only sentenced to 11yrs. You all are very strong individuals. I will like I do every night continue to pray for not only myself, and my LO but for you all and your LO's as well!

[Willie Mae]

My husband has been in prison since 1986. He was age 22 never been in trouble. It was a fist fight no gun no knife no club. The guy died from a concussion

[lilipus39]

My man was given lwop, when he was 21, he's 35 now and were waiting to hear from federal courts for a new trial.

[lilipus39]

My man was given lwop, when he was 21, he's 35 now and were waiting to hear from federal courts for a new trial.

I forgot to mention, he's in statesville.

[IMissMyBaby]

My bf is serving a shorter term, 4 years, but my heart and prayers goes out to all of those who have loved ones serving long sentences. I can't even imagine. You give me wisdom and hope- I will keep you in my prayers.
 

[rightsadvocator]

My son is serving a consecutive sentence total 60 years of which he has to serve 50%, 30 years he is 28 Y.O. He is in Menard and was incarcerated in April 2008. We are appealing the sentence to the Appelate Court, waiting for that to take place

[hiswife22]

My LO has been incarserated sence 1998 and he was 17ys old. he was originally sentenced to 44ys but but resently got it reduced to 30. He is in the process of going back to court and hopefully getting a new trial soon. I am so glad to have people to talk to that are in somewhat the same situation. i pray everyday for each and every one of you.

[Doll4BabyBoy]

My LO has 12 more years to go we are under
1/2 his time, I keep thinking I am over half
through this!

[Dazzler]

Doll, I hope the second half goes much faster than the first half....that's such a long time to wait....bless you both.

[pats]

My son was given LWOP based on accountability. How can you be accountabile for the impulsive actions another took?  Prosecutorial misconduct, coerced and threatened witnesses who have now recanted and another who got a "deal" from the State.  He would have made up a lie about his mother to get the deal he got.  We are currently in the courts fighting for a new trial.  If that is granted, there is no doublt he will win.  Keep us in your prayers.  We can never give up hope.  Hope and Faith is what keep us going.

[Dazzler]

Good Luck pats...I hope your son beats the charge in a new trial...

[downtownchicago]

It's not really appropriate for this thread, but I was just looking at the ILCS about "legal accountability", and it seems to me that, in theory at least, if the witnesses recant then it would be difficult to convict someone of accountability.

... a person is not so accountable ... if:  Before the commission of the offense, he terminates his effort to promote or facilitate such commission, and does one of the following: wholly deprives his prior efforts of effectiveness in such commission, or gives timely warning to the proper law enforcement authorities, or otherwise makes proper effort to prevent the commission of the offense.

So if he stopped assisting (if he had been assisting) or he made an effort to prevent the crime, he is not legally  accountable.

 

[loving_Liz]

Liz is doing 60 years, she has to serve half that 15 more to go (if the PC fails) her brother is LWOP

[dnnmb]

My husband was incarcerated since 1997.  He was sentenced to 46 years. He was 16.   He is in stateville.

[His Angel18]

My b/f was incarcerated in 1995 and has 75 yrs.  Currently in Stateville
               His Angel18

[hotchocolat77]

I just wanted to say, my heart goes out to all of you with loved ones serving these kinds of sentences. How heartbreaking for you. My h got 11 yrs, which seemed like forever to me, on the downhill slide now, hopefully sometime this year or next. I see now how lucky he and I both are. Love to you all

[westerly]

My son has been incarcerated since 2006.  He's supposed to be released in 2020.  He's currently at Pinckneyville.  My daughter in law was incarcerated in 2006 and is expected to be released in 2010.  She is being deported though when she is released.

[jgraff49]

Reading all of these posts, I have such a feeling of dread and heartache for all of you whose love ones are to be gone for so long.  My son is not a long term inmate but religiously he calls every Sunday (other days as well but random) at 1:00.  We have been sitting around all day waiting for him to call but no call has come through.  I was hoping he was at a softball game but now I'm worried that he got into trouble or was hurt.  He's been down i Vandalia for over a year without one ticket and just recently got approved for work release.  I'm so worried that somethig happened and he's in seg.  Does anyone know if this would jeopardize his work release?
JG

[sweetsallie]

 
My son is serving 15 years at 85% which comes to 12.7 years, he entered when he was 17 years old in 2007. It will be two years next month. I think sometimes how will we make the next decade! But, then my heart goes out to all of you with loved ones with LWOP. I am so deeply sorry! I try to remember that we are alive and can still see one another. I pray for miracles everyday. I become so infuriated with this non rehabilitative so called justice system! My prayers for your loved ones and God Bless you all! Again, I am so very sorry!!

[becca]

My son just got sentenced.  He is currently at Stateville.  Going to be moved to Danville.   14 years but they are appealing.   Can anyone tell me anything to relieve my mind?  He is our only son and child.

[ChicagoTarheel]

Becca,

My heart goes out to you.  This site is a wonderful source of information as well as many caring people who are in situations similar to yours.  Nothing can ever take the place of having our loved ones by our side but you can get through this !!! 

Welcome ! 

[hbmom]

Becca I am so sorry! my son is currently in stateville (r&c), 2 year sentence.....not sure where he will be going, so I dont really know anything about danville but I am sure someone else does, there is alot of information on this site and it is a great support place... hang in there...the pain will ease up!

[lilipus39]

   My guy has LWOP the new death penalty also, he's been incarcerated since 1995, he was 21 at the time, he's in hatesville/statesville

[wildcat7]

My husband took 20 years but served three in Cook County awaiting trial. Since he must serve 85% , that is three years off of twenty (17) minus time served (another three). He comes home in early June 2023. 13 and one half years to go! At least I have a day to look forward to. The waiting and not knowing what was going to happen was the worst part. The visits also makes the time go faster...it is already 2010! We have to look up and be positive for each other and our lo's that are incarcerated! Everyone be blessed! 

[lvanrs2]

My husband didnt have that much time but my thoughts go out to those who have lengthy sentences and their families.  Its a hard road especially if the inmate has been wrongfully convicted.

[wildcat7]

Yes, it can be difficult. I asked my husband to take the time instead of trying to fight the corrupt Cook County System (his ex wife works for the sheriff's department, so enough said). The detectives even said that they believed in their hearts that she was lying but there was no way to fight her and her lying gang of family members. Anyway, I will be here for my husband through this because he listened to me and took the time. You are right; bless those that are wrongfully imprisoned. Like my mom always says "Payday cometh! Just sit back and do the right thing"

[lvanrs2]

The prosecutor was seeking 30 years for my husband but after a long wait in the county jail they finally came down to 10 and I told him to take it because had he gone to trial he would have gotten the 30 years and I told him he would die in prison.  He couldn't have won because he is actually guilty of his crime and he knew when we hired the attorney it was just to minimize the amount of time.  He accepts responsibility for his actions so that helps us alot.

[wildcat7]

Ivanrs2, I feel you! It takes a real man to admit when they have done something wrong just like it takes a real man to listen to the wisdom of their wife and take time that they do not deserve to serve! My honey was facing 40 - 45 years, but he heard me and understood that I have his (our) best interest at heart. Blessings to you and your family!

[lvanrs2]

Well I feel for those who should not be serving any time because of a corrupt system.  It's hard to fight a system like that.  All anyone can do is stand up and try to fight for changes within a system that doesn't always work.  I read an article once that stated only 1% of inmates were actually innocent.  I believe that amount is higher than what that article said, especially since DNA became available to prove ones innocence.

[loving_Liz]

I have two, first LWOP for now, Menard Max,custody year 1996,  second one 60 years at 50 percent in Lincoln and custody year 1998

[wildcat7]

Multiple blessing on you and your family, LovingLiz!

[Beltran]

My bf is serving a 19 year 364 day sentence at 85% and has 14 1/2 years left.

[lil sis]

my sister is serving a 29 year sentence, she has 10 down and 19 more to go....she was hanging with the wrong crowd, not even at the crime scene, guilty by association.:(

[boop]

My Brother was sentenced to 25 years, he has to serve 85%. He took a plea for less time

[kate102518]

My LO is serving a 12.5 year sentence at 85%, starting in 2006.  He's currently in Logan.

[Missplaymate618]

God Bless each and everyone of you who has a LO serving a long sentence.  My uncle has done 17 with 4 more to go.

[sweetness]

My fiance is serving life has been in for 29 years, maybe not much longer

[myson]

We want to see how many of our members have loved ones serving long-term sentences. In addition to the poll question, if you would like to also answer the year your inmate was incarcerated, the length of his/her sentence, and his/her institution, it would be very helpful.

Thank you.

don't know if it is too late to respond but my son was given  85 yrs. for murder and attempt murder on accountability

[Dazzler]

No, it's not too late...this is an ongoing poll.  Myson I'm so sorry.  There are others here with children with very long sentences.  They are very supportive.  You share a special pain that others may not understand.  Welcome to IPT.

[Cainslady03]

My fiance is serving 25 years and has served 11 of those years already.  He was incarcerated in 2001 and is currently at Shawnee.

[BlueMist]

 :wc30:Hi every one, You know i hear a lot of love here and ,and it is so hard loving some one and to just meet every day life in general.My son is there but he will come home soon i hope, I lost a son that died in prison of aids  that had minimum health care he died a lone I  :wc69:to wife's and girlfriends that stick by their love one some don't and move on with their lives and it is very important that the inmates have people that care and love them,I Al so lost a son  22 that was  shot 3 times and was kicked and told to die and he did,over $30.00 dollars.
The man  was sentenced to 15 years he done 61/2.That was in 1988,My other son with aids die at east Moline was 3 years ago , he was in on  burglary 10 years sentence none violent, Also i just lost my hubby with brain and lung cancer at 64 married 37 years ,And now my youngest is in prison he been there before, none violent burglary recd 6 years.And i am 70 so i have been up and down I take one day at a time  ,because that is all we can do and pray, God will take care of us in his own time not when we want it but his time,So all hang in there ,Gods Blessing on you and yours   And DAZZ you are a good one Bless you for all your help as always Blue Mist

[hbmom]

bluemist...I am so sorry! I am a mom too and I cant even begin to imagine the the heartache you have felt. love to you!

[wildcat7]

Dear Ms. BlueMist,
God bless you. That is all I can say at this moment. I live very near East Moline, so when I read that, my heart kinda skipped a beat. I too, have lost sons. My husband and I understand but can never fully comprehend the pain you must feel. We lost the twins while they were infants. You had time to watch your boys grow into young men...your making me cry. I admire your obvious strength. When I grow up, I want to have long life, wisdom, compassion, understanding, and faith in my Lord just as you obviously do. You are a living example to us wives and mothers on how to do it with grace (under fire). God Bless!

[BlueMist]

 :wc30:Hi and thank you all so much ,People like you make the world go around no matter what ages your sons and daughter are the hurt is always there, when you loose them ,As long as you hold them in your heart they will always be close to you .Hope every one that is on this web pages get there lo home ,It always seems like for ever for something to happen good ,Well i look at this site as   a gift:wc30: DAZZ,was Sent here for some reason and is a super person.
And the people that are here care enough to try and do their best that they can
and give strength and love to one another,Well my friends have a good week end
and may Gods love be with you all

                                                    AS ALWAYS BLUE MIST

[griz bear]

 

You are obviously a strong and loving lady, and your son is lucky to have you!  We all must do the best with what we have to work with, and this sight has gotten alot of resourceful and determined people in contact with one another.  Dazz is the hub and all the rest of us spokes but together we have a stronger voice and presence to make some positive impact on our lo's lives and the lives of others are are facing similar challenges!  God bless you as you wait, love and support you son...Griz

[half sista]

As difficult as it is for all of us responding to this question, I guess one can see it as a form of therapy.  My brother got locked up at the same time my dad revealed to us that we were even related to each other.  This was also at the same time I relocated to a different state.  He got 25 years.  About 14 more to GO.

[HIZGIRL4LIFE]

my inmate has been incarcerated since 2005. He is in stateville, working on his appeal. He was given a 50 yr sentence at the age of 21 =*(

[inrepublic]

I have one in Illinois River. He was 18 years old in '94, the year he received 50 years.

The other one is in Pinckneyville. He was 17 years old in 2003, the year he received 22 years.

[robin in ohio]

I have an Uncle that's in Stateville doing 25 to life...this is 25 hope he comes home in Oct. .....then I have my husband in Lawrence doing 55yrs....It's going on 19 now

[RMadrigal]

 

My son is in Lawrence just started a 13 year sentence hes only 21 years old and my cousin has been in Menard for the last 7 years serving his 48 year sentence!!!

[Essdizzle]

My friend in Menard got sentenced to 24 years.Convicted June 6th 2010
My brother in law/ best friend starts trial Aug 2nd he's looking at 20 to life if convicted
My babies daddy is looking at 7 to 15 yrs I'm not sure when he goes to trail he is being tried for the samething as my brother in law 1st degree murder and so is my friend.
My boyfriend is having a 402 confrence on Tuesday the 6th at Cook County Courthouse on 26th st. he has the option to take the time they are offering him 10 yrs at 50% for a home invasion but if he pushes to go to trial and the victims don't come his lawyer said it'll be thrown out but he has to wait 3 more months..

[chippyn]

Boyfriend at menard serving 45 years convicted in 1999

[mstoy]

My husband has been locked up since 1991 with a sentence of 40 + years. He will be home in 5 more years.....

I can't wait....

[Amanda.Marks]

My heart goes out to all of you with Long Long Sentences, here I am crying over an 8 year sentence! I couldn't even imagine 20, 30, or even Life!!! You are all very strong to stand by your inmates for that length of time! I send a  your way! I can't imagine it being an easy road!

[iloveu88]

God bless everyone who has a lo serving a longterm sentence...I couldn't imagine the way I would feel....my boyfriend got a 7 1/2 yr sentence at 50% n I thought this time was long...keep ur heads up
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Y'all r very strong ppl
.

[jdmlt]

Honestly I don't know when my son will get out, he has no out date...he's under civil case. He was 18 when he got arrested Feb. 12, 09 went to prison Sept. 3, 10...We were told by son's public defender and DA that the average is 10 to 12 yrs...but since my son has been at BMR he says he's heard some have gotten out at 6 yrs...some are still there at 20 yrs..... Hoping for the best, but taking it day by day and most days aren't good..

[HekLjp3]

My fiance got a 13 year sentence and im goin nuts.Bless every one of you all very strong people!

[Puzzled]

HekLjp3  I can't imagine what your going through as mu LO has nothing near the sentences I see posted here.  But my heart aches for all of you that are left to endure these long sentences.  There are boards a plenty to post on here and work through your feelings.  And even more support by those who've been through it to share their insights with you.       

 

[HekLjp3]

Thanks im just thankful he is not serving the full 13 years so it could always be worse thats how i look at it and also its a huge learning expierence and when he comes home our love will be that much stronger knowing we got over that huge bump we can overcome anything and i also believe everything happens for a reason and that he could be way worse off if he hadnt went to prison so i have accepted it and so has he so knowing we are getting closer to the end everyday makes me more and more relieved !

[MrsRamos]

Short term here...2 years.

[becca]

My son is at Illinois River.  14 year sentence so 7 years at 50%..he is appealing..which takes forever I guess.    Been there 1 year.....a long 1 year... I can't imagine  the  20+ year people---..they made his  either  it is  consecutive when it should be concurrent or the other way around--if so  it will be 5 years  out in 2 1/2 years.  I keep praying this happens.  He is my only child so I miss him sooo much.

[lohmom]

Son serving 4 1/2 yrs incarcerated since 2009.

[BlueMist]

 :wc30:A big hug for all of with lo with a long time and also my prayers are  with...  As Always Blue Mist

[Willie Mae]

Life without parole

[Sally]

Married my husband while he was incarcerated at Pontiac.  Been married 9 wonderful years now.  He is LWOP. 

[sweetsallie]

 
God Bless You All and give you strength to carry on each day! How difficult it is to have a loved one incarcerated!!! Previously I posted my son had 12.7 years and now he has 9 years...I am just focusing on the single digit for now.
Anyway, Have you all seen the movie Convicted with Hilary Swank it really was very good and reminds us to never give up and love never fails, never lose hope!! I cried the whole time........but then again I cry all the time...a reminder of my son will do that to me. So see the movie if you are able to and never give up!!

Happy Easter to all!!

[chantygirl]

My LO is my boyfriends brother.  He was transferred from cook county into prison in 1995.  He's serving 106 years.  I'm not sure of the percentage, but, he's got 18 down and is due out in 2045.  He's currently in Menard.  We're hopeful we can bring him home way before that though.  We will never give up!!

[scotts baby 08]

we have 5 more yrs to go..

and 

[rottiemama2003]

Mine was sentenced to 60 y , we aare on 29 th year our end will be in jan 2012

[jna]

Mine was given two 9yr 3 mo sentences and one 7 yr. So, he will have to do 4yr 7mo minus any time off for programs and such.

[chadsangel4]

My cousin was sentenced to LWOP in 1996.  He has been in locked up since 1994.  He was 22.  I'm his only family.  I hope his appeals eventually work and he is given his freedom back.