Getting information from the facility

[SisterLove]

  Kiannie how are you doing from your post still not so good, Just remember that you will make it through this together it is very hard to be away from the one you loved more than anything in the world. I know how you feel I have been doing this for a few years and I just pray god gives me strength to keep us both going at time's I get upset, I cry at night I just miss him so much I don't always know what to do it is a blessing I have such great friends who understand and listen and encourages me. I also talk  to him alot about how I feel and he makes me feel alot better.
 I know the ex wife thing is unsettling you just have to trust that your love is strong enough to with stand anything. I'm praying that god helps you through everyhthing and those pills are not a good things to use to help cope with this situation. Being depressed is a state of mind that can be change just try to stay focus because he needs and you need to be healthy for your self.

[Crowe29]

My B used to try n call me practically every day...it was cute though cuz he was like 'well u know i can't help it' but then reality set in and it's 2x/week for us now...though sometimes when we have a deep conversation we talk for a whole hr and then have one more call later in the week so it's like 3 calls. But that's only in case we just can't wrap up in 30mins.

[kiannie04]

Thanks sister love, I just feel truly helpless and at times I just want to give up and move on...I don't like feeling like this just crying and sleeping and to top it off I need spine surgery, he has his hearing and I hope they let him out

[SisterLove]

Kiannie I pm you check it.

[kiannie04]

Ok

[Angela]

Wow, I wish I could get a phone call every day.

I just wish I would get a call.

[piirate]

Reading how often you guys get calls and visit makes me feel bad. lol. I get one or two calls a week. And I last got to see him in March three times and the time before that in October twice. I don't have a job job so it's hard for me to do all that. Plus they charge way to much tax on the phone. =[

[Kinnysbaby]

I know that we would love to talk to our loved ones everyday. But it is true it gets expensive I have been doing this for 15 years and it does not get easier. I keep myself busy with work and writing. I have not heard from my babes since last saturday. they went on lockdown a couple of days ago. I worry everday about him but he always assures me he has gotten use to the lockdown. Kainne04 try and no it is not easy to get depressed, i take medication for depression everyday. There are days i don't sleep very well or I don't go to sleep until a couple of hours before I have to go to work. I will keep you in my prayers but just know one thing you have more strength then you think you have. Your sad right now and that will pass. You are a strong woman you can do this. Don't give up on your loved one, they need you just as much as you need them. I hope things go well with your surgery.

[SisterLove]

  Piirate,

[SisterLove]

So True kinnysbaby and those calls add up fast and adter you have been doing it a while you can almost bankrupt yourself me and my boo had to make changes if he wanted to see me as often as he does. We write more and I visit very often mostly about once a week. but you have to do what is within your means so you can still take care of you on the outside. Piirate I pray you are blessed with a job soon I have been in that situation and it is rough but god will make a way.

[piirate]

  Thank you.