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Graham Correctional Center Andy Ott, Warden Facility Data Graham Correctional Center Opened: September 1980 *Operational Capacity: 2,010 Medium Security Adult Male *Population Graham Correctional Center: 1,520 *Population Graham Reception & Classification Center: 376 *Total Current Population: 1,896 Average Age: 33 FY2010 Average Annual Cost Per Inmate: $19,240.00 *As of 11/30/2011. Reflects bed space capacity analysis as outlined in the January 1, 2012 Quarterly Report to the Legislature. Graham Correctional Center is the parent institution for Graham Reception and Classification Center. Visiting HoursIDOC Visitation Rules and Information—please review before visiting Visitors to any correctional facility will be required to produce photo identification and verification of date of birth. Please be sure to bring 2 forms of identification with you; these would include a current photo ID such as a driver’s license, a state ID card, government ID card, military ID/driver’s license, or acceptable documentation of non-U.S. citizenship including a current Passport, or Visa, documentation must contain the visitor’s date of birth. Expired forms of identification will not be accepted. Visitors will also be required to provide vehicle information and other pertinent data, such as government identification, official credentials, attorney registration, and or law student certification. General Population: 8:00 a.m.- 4:00 p.m. (seven days per week) Visitors must arrive by 2:30 p.m. No visits are allowed for phase I Orientation inmates Segregation and inmates with a non-contact visit restriction: 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. Monday thru Friday, No weekends or holidays Visitors must arrive by 1:00 p.m. Inmates in C Grade Classification 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Monday thru Friday, No weekends or holidays. Visitors must arrive by 2:30 p.m. Please note, should overcrowding occur, time limits will be established so all visits may be accommodated. Facility Address
Business Mail: R.R. #1, Highway 185 P.O. Box 499 (use PO Box only for mail) Hillsboro, IL 62049
Inmate Mail: Inmate Name & IDOC# P.O. Box 499 (use PO Box only for mail) Hillsboro, IL 62049 Phone: (217) 532-6961 Fax: (217) 532-6799
Facility Information Graham Correctional Center houses several special populations, including substance abuse treatment, sex offender treatment and inmates in a kidney dialysis program. Graham continues to offer numerous academic and vocational programs. Graham Correctional Center is a medium security adult male correctional facility located two miles southeast of Hillsboro on Route 185. Graham is located on 117 acres and has 50 buildings within the facility. Inmate Programs Academic: •ABE (Adult Basic Education) •GED (General Education Development) Vocational: •Construction Occupation •Auto Body •Auto Mechanics •Custodial Maintenance •Computer Technology •Business Management •Cooperative Work Training Program •Print Management •Job Preparation Industries: •Furniture Making Volunteer Services: •Religious Services Other: •Orientation •Title 1 •Special Education •TRAC I and II •Parole School I and II •Lifestyle Redirection •Life Skills •Substance Abuse •Leisure Time Activity •Library •Sex Offender Program •Chaplaincy •Alcoholics Anonymous •Narcotics Anonymous http://www2.illinois.gov/idoc/facilities/Pages/grahamcorrectionalcenter.aspx
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« Reply #2 on: March 14, 2008, 08:34:44 PM » |
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Hi everyone,
Just wondering in anyone knows if Graham is having any phone issues. He always calls when he tells me he is going to, and this week I am not hearing from him. I have already checked with Consolidated just to make sure that my account is in good standing and it is.
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« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2008, 11:35:38 PM » |
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re: Phones at Graham
I spoke to my son a couple times this week. However Graham is notorious for poor phone service. One night I couldnt hear a thing (he sounded like he was 3 rooms away) Another night it just died in the middle of our conversation. I also heard there are not very many calls and cut off is earlier than some other facilities. I think he had until 8:30 and that was assuming he could get access to the phone. Not sure if that helps but it may ease your thoughts a bit.
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« Reply #4 on: February 27, 2009, 10:01:56 PM » |
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Anyone getting calls from Graham? J said in his last letter...that was dated 3 weeks before I got it...that the two phones on his wing are dead and they are told it could be months before they are fixed. I guess that means consolidated won't be getting any more of my money. They have to be losing money by not fixing the phones...wouldn't you think?
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« Reply #5 on: March 19, 2009, 10:18:39 PM » |
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Hi Klo I wished I had seen this earlier....I would have responded.
My son was transferred to the regular wing a few months ago (he was in the drug program). The phones were horrible - within two minutes, static...so he made very little phone calls back then, and we continued with the intense letter writing (we, as in him and I). The phones were since fixed, so he began to make more phone calls - has this been the case for you?
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He is back in the drug program - happy little clam, as he got the bottom bunk (cell mate got sent to seg), new cell mate is CLEAN and he is back with his support buddies.
We are going to visit him next week - spring does go forward....as will we!
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« Reply #6 on: March 21, 2009, 07:39:22 PM » |
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The phones were fixed and I talked to him once. He's been calling his mom and sister mostly because they are all trying to work out housing. It's complicated, I'll PM you about it all. Last I talked to him he was taking some sort of computer class and had a new guy with him. He has not told me much about the place other than that he likes the movement and getting to go to the library.
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« Reply #7 on: March 21, 2009, 09:10:48 PM » |
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I am going to visit my son tomorrow at Grahm. Does anyone have any advice oh what I can bring him such as magazines or books. Or what I should expect. I am so excited to see him!
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« Reply #8 on: March 22, 2009, 08:22:29 AM » |
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I am going to visit my son tomorrow at Grahm. Does anyone have any advice oh what I can bring him such as magazines or books. Or what I should expect. I am so excited to see him!
You can normally take in 5 books/magazines when you visit. Be sure nothing has anything to do with weapons in them. I took my son a fishing catalog in once and they rejected it, because there was a small section of knives in it and so I tore out those pages and resent it and he got it ... Have a great visit !!
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« Reply #9 on: August 22, 2009, 12:47:13 AM » |
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I was checking the DOC website and noticed that my man was changed from R & C at Graham to "IN CUSTODY", which I am pretty sure this is good news for him and me! Am I able to go see him tomorrow if he is no longer in Receiving? If I am unsure is it okay to call first and find out? What hours can I call and what area do I ask for to get the correct answer. If that doesn't work what number do I call to get the answer I want? just kidding. I guess I did not get the VINE notification because he stayed at Graham, would that be true? Thanks for any help. It has been 32 days since I have heard his voice, I can't wait. I hope I get to see him tomorrow.
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« Reply #10 on: August 22, 2009, 01:02:07 AM » |
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 Hey welcome Sounds like he is going to be staying in Graham, you wont be able to visit until his visit list is approved. Usually takes a couple of weeks.....the norm is different everywhere but that is average. If he went to general population I bet you will get a phone call soon. Maybe in a week or two as well. Make sure and go to our Consolidated thread so you can be set up to take his phone calls. I am sure you will be hearing from him soon, just a bit longer to continue being patient then you will be able to hear from him and visits often. 
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« Reply #11 on: September 19, 2009, 06:03:06 PM » |
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Does anyone, besides me have a loved one in Graham? It really don't seem like a lot of people have family in that facility, trying to see if I'm the only one. If so where do you live, I live in Chicago, the south side.
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« Reply #12 on: September 19, 2009, 06:17:17 PM » |
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go to: http://www.illinoisprisontalk.org/index.php/topic,62.0.html
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« Reply #13 on: September 19, 2009, 06:32:22 PM » |
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My man is @ Graham since July 23, 2009, 61 days.He is hoping for work release, unless of course there is early release. I live near Springfield, IL and lucky for me that is only about 45 minutes to drive to see him. If there is ever anything I can do to help let me know. I agree I hardly ever see much said about Graham. However my guy just called real quick before they were going to go to lockdown to search for a missing inside door knob to the mop closet. I sure hope they find it because I am planning to visit him tomorrow. Do they still allow visits under those circumstances? When are you making your next trip south? Take care. Coxy Girl
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« Reply #14 on: September 23, 2009, 09:29:31 PM » |
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well, my hubby been there since jan of 2009 and he won't be getting out till next year, in oct of 2010 hopefully. I am currently living in chicago and that's about 4 hrs from where he is located. I haven't seen him since he went to prison b/c he is so far and I have no car and no one will take me to visit. I just recently learned that they have public transportation that will take you to visit. So I'm hoping to go visit next month when I have the money to go. I'm thinking bout moving to springfield in Aug, so he can parole there when he get out. So how is it where you live and what type of places can I get some info about housing and apt? Glad that we met and hopefully will meet again in person one day. I don't understand why they don't have a lot of ppl that go to graham, it is very few who even go to there, so that make it a little harder. 
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« Reply #15 on: September 29, 2009, 07:49:20 PM » |
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My LO was pretty disappointed to find out today that the funding for the CWT program has been cut at Graham. He is trying to figure out the next best way to earn good time... any suggestions? He is not court mandated to enter the drug program but would that be an option anyway? Thank you!
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« Reply #16 on: September 29, 2009, 08:50:11 PM » |
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Graham has several programs he can avail himself of, including GED, college courses, and other trade-related courses in addition to the drug program where he can earn good time (if qualified). He should speak to his counselor about what he is eligible for, sign up on the waiting list, and wait to be called.
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« Reply #17 on: September 29, 2009, 09:11:09 PM » |
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Just makes you wonder which other programs will be unavailable with the cuts? He does not qualify for GED and he has less than a 1 year sentence to complete after receiving the overcrowding good time. With less than a year, is it still possible to get into a college course? Do you know when those begin and how many days/months they last? thanks so much.
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« Reply #18 on: September 29, 2009, 09:38:49 PM » |
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College classes are based on semesters....they are still available for those who qualify (entrance exams), but they must go on a waiting list. I am assuming that they begin/end like in normal college campuses, as they are accredited courses.
I don't know the politics of short-timers and how soon they can access these opportunities - he's in the inside, and I am sure many are advising him - what does he tell you?
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« Reply #19 on: October 13, 2009, 02:22:46 PM » |
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My LO is waiting in county to go to Graham. He should be there within a few weeks tops. Yeah I think it's strange not many people on here have loved ones there. A lot of guys from the county jail here in Springfield go there. I've known quite a few personally that did their time there. Did you ever move to Springfield? Compared to Chicago, it sucks. But it depends on where in Chicago you are at. Springfield's a lot smaller and it's pretty boring here. There isn't much to do at all. There are a lot of different apartment complexes and houses for rent here and most of them are pretty cheap. If you're still looking into moving here I would tell you to start looking in the newspaper, you can look online at www.sj-r.com then go to the classifieds and houses or apt's for rent. It also includes rentals around the vicinity. Also try apartmentfinder.com, that lists the biggest apartment complexes here in town. You will probably have to put in a zip code. Try 62704, 62703, 62702. Hope this helps some! Has your hubby heard of any of the inmates being released early?? Do you know what they're doing with the new guys coming in with short sentences?
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« Reply #20 on: October 16, 2009, 08:32:56 PM » |
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Well, let me first start off by saying thank you for helping me some info to look into in Springfield, b/c the only thing I've been doing is the internet. I haven't moved yet, probably will move when it starts getting a little warmer. I don't know too much of whats going on w/ the inmates, but I sure will ask my hubby about it. How long your dude get? My hubby get out next year and I can't wait either. Hopefully we'll meet one day and maybe our guys will meet in there.
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« Reply #21 on: October 20, 2009, 10:17:41 PM » |
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My fiance' is finally out of county & in IDOC custody at Graham as of today! I'm glad he's getting it done & over with but having him so close to home & being able to talk to him as much as we could was nice. I miss him already :( I hope he isn't in receiving forever. How long will it take for me to get a letter from him? & how do I know if he has money on his books?
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« Reply #22 on: October 20, 2009, 10:47:09 PM » |
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Hillsboro is still not that far away. less than an hour from Springfield. You will need to set up an account with Consolidated to be able to receive phone calls from him once he is out of receiving. It took about 3 weeks for me to get one letter. Sometimes they will be able to get a write out and pay it back once they are out of receiving. Most of the guys will help each other out like that it seems. My guy sounds like he has the same attitude as your man. Serve your time, earn what good time you can, stay out of any trouble and just mind your own business.... so far it is working just fine for him. He gets along with everyone though and is a hard worker. He spends very little time just sitting in his cell. (unless of course he is on lockdown!)They didn't even get to leave the cell to eat the meals. He said breakfast arrived at about 3am, lunch came around 9am, but then dinner wasn't until 8pm. Of course remember he has no clock. You can write to your LO all the time now though. If you send something be sure to put his number on the envelope. He usually gets letters in 5-7 days, and if it is a magazine or book, in a larger envelope in 3 days. It takes about 7-10 days for me to receive letters from him. But always worth the wait! Take care and take care of yourself.
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Thanks for the info. Yeah, their personalities are very similar. He told me he is not there to make friends, he just wants to do whatever possible to come home soon. So as of now, he has 159 days to serve... do you think he would even have enough time to get into drug treatment or any classes? Some say the wait is 3 months...
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« Reply #24 on: October 21, 2009, 08:37:05 PM » |
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If you want to receive letters it would require you to send money, quickest way is through Western Union (online). He will get to go to Commissary one time per month on Friday, as long as it's not the last day of the month (inventory)so no sales. He can purchase 10-15 write outs along with only hygiene items up to $15.00 while in Receiving all of this is just while he is in receiving. I would suggest he talk to his counselor about classes. Depending on when he gets started it might be worth it. Is this his first time incarcerated? Because I hear they offer the classes to first timers first, don't know that for sure. It may take awhile for any money from county to catch up with him at Graham. Just keep writing to him, because I am sure he will appreciate hearing from you. Take care.
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« Reply #25 on: October 21, 2009, 11:03:50 PM » |
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What is the receiving(x house) like at graham? Do they get out of there cells at all? To go to chow or yard? Can they use the phone or go to commissary?
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« Reply #26 on: October 21, 2009, 11:52:51 PM » |
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Okay I will be doing the western union tomorrow then, I think he may have $ on his account from county but like you said, it will take a while to catch up with him. I want to put just enough on there so he can get the 10-15 write outs and toiletries so I'm not wasting my money in case he gets transfered after Graham. How much do you think it would be? About $30? Also, I don't have a credit or debit card so I won't be able to do it online, do you know how long it takes if you do it at the store?
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coxy girl- yes this is his first time incarcerated. I was thinking if he gets in right after he gets out of receiving (end of Nov), he could only do about 2 months of classes. That would put him at getting out the end of Feb. What is the minimum time-frame of any class they might offer? Do you know if any are less than a month?
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« Reply #28 on: October 22, 2009, 04:39:25 PM » |
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In order to get any credit for classes, the inmate must COMPLETE the classes.
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« Reply #29 on: October 22, 2009, 05:10:22 PM » |
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I know, I was just wondering how long shortest class or program was?
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« Reply #30 on: October 22, 2009, 05:22:36 PM » |
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Most classes that are college courses are a full semester, and run at a regular semester schedule (Aug/Sept through December....Jan through May/June) as these courses are accredited through the local college. Other classes/programs run from 8 months to 1 year. Finally, the drug program is about an 18 month program. I am unfamiliar with any GED courses and intervals.
Why not let him be "schooled" about possible programs that he might be eligible for when he arrives at his final destination? No doubt he will have a good handle in what he can and can't do as soon as he is out of R&C. Remember, different facilities offer different things, or nothing at all.
By the way, he won't be able to make any calls while in R&C (it can take anywhere from 2-6 weeks, depending on bed availability before he is assigned to his final destination). And I wouldn't worry about whether his money will follow him, as it will.
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« Reply #31 on: October 22, 2009, 05:33:36 PM » |
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Thanks Mamacita. I just wanted to try & help him along with this, I figured he would be confused with all of the info he will be getting as this is his first time in & just wanted to be there for him. He will only have 4 months to serve once he's out of r&c as long as it's around a month long. So I guess he won't be able to do any classes or programs, unless there is something different if he gets transfered. I just worry that he will get a counselor that doesn't care to help or guide him along the way. I've heard some stories.
I know he won't be able to call, but I wanted to make sure he would be able to write & get the toiletries he needed. I don't have a credit/debit card so I can't do western union online. Are there any other options for me to send $ that he would be able to receive it quickly so he won't miss his one commisary?
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« Reply #32 on: October 22, 2009, 05:44:04 PM » |
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I am trying to remember - and if memories serves me correctly, he won't be getting commissary while in R&C. My son wrote me a few letters because someone gave him some write-outs. It was only after he was at his final destination that he was eligible for commissary.
The first time I sent him money, I used Western Union - it arrived within days, and is the best way to go about this, especially because mail can be slow (incoming) and even slower to post any money orders. I think you can go to any currency exchange to send him a western union.
Seems quite lucky that he will only have to do 4 months, most have a minimum of 61 days - they are referred to as short-timers, and are in for too short of a time to qualify for anything that might let them out sooner, as they are already doing "minimum time". I would say that you both should feel quite lucky that he will only be doing 4 months, if you are correct in your assertion. IDOC generally follows their own protocal......
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« Reply #33 on: October 22, 2009, 05:46:17 PM » |
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You can take cash to a currency exchange or someplace like Walmart and send it Quick Collect by Western Union. It costs $8.95. It is received usually in 24 hours.
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« Reply #34 on: October 22, 2009, 05:53:31 PM » |
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Well 4 months assuming he gets his 6 months good time... and it's already been a month almost since he's been gone, then another month or so in R&C. He has a 2 yr sentence. I sure hope I get a letter! Thanks everyone for the help!
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« Reply #35 on: October 22, 2009, 09:01:49 PM » |
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Like I said before don't get your hopes up that he'll get into any classes. They usually reserve them for people with more time. Also I know the GED class my BF was in you had to go for 90 days before you got any good time.
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So allgone, did your bf get his GED? How long did it take him? Or is he still trying to get it?
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« Reply #37 on: October 22, 2009, 09:15:01 PM » |
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I am trying to not get my hopes up for anything anymore! Things def. don't go as planned with the DOC that is for sure! He has his diploma so he won't be able to take the GED. Hopefully he can get into something though.
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« Reply #38 on: October 22, 2009, 11:17:55 PM » |
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So allgone, did your bf get his GED? How long did it take him? Or is he still trying to get it?
Nope he didn't get it. He's been transferred to four different places not counting Stateville. He's had to start over each time. Each new teacher tells him that the last teacher needed to sign something and transfer his credit with him but none of them have supposedly done it. This last transfer was for disciplinary reasons so he lost the school credit from the last place and now he's at the bottom of the list to get back into school. So he ended up screwing himself. I know he was in class with a guy who got his GED in three months time, another took six months and there were a few who had been in the class for a lot longer but it all depends on how far down in your skills you have to start based on your placeent tests. But his teacher at county said becasue he was in school there, when he gets out he can get a discount rate to take GED classes at the community college. So we're just in a holding pattern for now. You know, like most of the people involved with the department of corrections. :)
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« Reply #39 on: November 17, 2009, 02:38:39 PM » |
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A friend of mine is getting released from Graham in a couple weeks and he wants me to pick him up. I have been searching this and other websites for information on where to go, etc and have been unable to find anything. I did find something on one of the forums that stated only immediate family members are able to pick up released prisoners, is this true? I am not an immediate family member so I am hoping someone here could explain the procedures for picking up a released prisoner so he isn't stuck there without a ride home! Thank You in advance for any help in this matter.
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« Reply #40 on: November 17, 2009, 02:49:07 PM » |
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I'm not sure about the immediate family thing. i have never heard of that. they are adults and can do whatever they want why would they need family to pick them up?? and what if they dont have any family? i know they will put them on a bus home so i dont see why he would need a family member to pick him up! Call the prison directly and find out from them they would be able to tell you about the family thing.
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« Reply #41 on: November 25, 2009, 11:03:59 PM » |
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am getting ready to visit my husband in graham and i was wondering is there is a limit to how many pl can visit at one time it will b me and our three kids i was also wondering am i aloud to hold hands with him during our visit and am i aloud to kiss and hug him when i get there and before i leave ? i haven't visited yet so what Else do i need to know?
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« Reply #42 on: November 25, 2009, 11:16:26 PM » |
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The chairs are fixed - and the fixed amount is 4 people. I don't know what age your kids are, but if one can sit on your lap, it may be okay ....you should call the facility to verify.
I am a mom - so all I know if that you can hug and kiss upon seeing each other at the beginning and at the end. I don't know what "kissing" may mean to you, but as a spouse, and if you are thinking a great kiss.....I doubt it will be allowed.
Dress conservatively. You have to remember that Graham houses sex offenders, and they take this very seriously. The best advice I can give you is to take over sized sweaters for you and your female children....absolutely no body skin should be revealed.
Other than what I mentioned, the rest is the same as in all other IDOC facilities.
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« Reply #43 on: December 05, 2009, 02:31:15 PM » |
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 I'm a newbie here... my L/O is in Receiveing in Graham... Does anyone know how long it is currently taking to be placed? Any tips I can use? Thanks
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« Reply #44 on: December 05, 2009, 04:58:12 PM » |
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Plan on a couple of weeks. I had a friend who was at Graham for six months. I visited weekly and had no problems. The key is be patient and follow the rules. While in R&C he will not be able to call or write. this is the longest and most difficult part. Once in general population, and when his visit list is approved, then you will be able to visit and set up phone service. If you are able to keep money in his account for the little things he needs it helps alot. When you visit dress conservatively with no exposed skin. I recommend slacks and oversized turtleneck tops. Don't wear anything that shows the lines or your undergarments. I also used to keep a change of clothes in my car, just in case they find some reason to deny entry due to dress I could change and try again. my thoughts are with you as I clearly remember the emotions and worry I felt when D first went there. he has been home for two years now and there is light for the future. 
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« Reply #45 on: December 05, 2009, 05:57:30 PM » |
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my man has been in receiving at graham for almost 7 weeks. they CAN write. I've gotten about 18 letters so far. just make sure he has money on his books. they cant call or have visits until they are placed.
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« Reply #46 on: December 10, 2009, 10:34:48 AM » |
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 Mommato3lilLadies...How long was your L/O in receiving @ Graham... Did they move him or is he still there? Mine is in receiving now at Graham he has been there 2 weeks already. I'm hoping I can spend Christmas with him.
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« Reply #47 on: December 11, 2009, 07:32:14 PM » |
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He is still in receiving at Graham!!! It has been almost 8 weeks now! I have called & they keep telling me he's going to be transfered. He's been in there longer than anyone that has came in or around the same time as him. I'm wondering what the hell is going on?!
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« Reply #48 on: December 11, 2009, 07:41:10 PM » |
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What I am about to say is a guess...but seeing that you said he was approved for Taylorville, a level 5 facility....perhaps they really are waiting for an open bed. Trust me, you would rather him wait for a longer period of time and get your inmate sent to Taylorville than to be sent to a level 1 or 2 facility.
How much time must he serve?
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« Reply #49 on: December 12, 2009, 12:11:07 PM » |
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Taylorville was our first thought too. But guys that have came in days & weeks after him have already left for Tville. So we're thinking Jacksonville now. He will be out no later than March 30th. So he has to serve the 6 months as far as we know. He's been in since Sept. 30.
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« Reply #50 on: December 12, 2009, 12:17:56 PM » |
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With such a short stint, they may very well keep him at Graham. Have you been able to visit him?
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« Reply #51 on: December 12, 2009, 10:15:00 PM » |
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No I thought they couldn't have visitors in receiving?
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« Reply #52 on: December 12, 2009, 10:17:16 PM » |
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They told me he's definitely moving, but they have also told me & him a lot of things that haven't been true... so who knows. I would think they would have moved him into GP if he was going to stay. I know others have already gone to GP that came in after him.
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« Reply #53 on: December 13, 2009, 01:00:09 AM » |
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Hey! I was hoping you would have some good news about your LO getting moved from receiving. Is he writing to you? I know it must be so hard, this time that you are experiencing now was the most incredibly long time for me. In hindsight, I can offer this positive note and that is at least you are saving money on phone calls and visits. But if you are like me, you probably don't care about the money right now you just want to see your LO. I don't think there is anything else you can do but just wait and write, but if I talk to my guy and he knows of something I will definitely pass it on. Keep your spirits up!
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« Reply #54 on: December 13, 2009, 01:46:03 AM » |
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Call first....but while in R&C, I was able to visit.
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« Reply #55 on: December 13, 2009, 11:48:29 PM » |
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Thanks Coxy girl. He does write to me a lot.. It helps me a lot getting a 10 page letter 2-3 times a week. I knew I was going to have a hard time with this receiving part, but 8 weeks or more is just too much. I am getting really used to it tho and I am doing 100 times better. I don't cry hardly at all, mostly because I am so busy with my girls and family and all of the Christmas activities. I just want to be able to TALK to him on Christmas. That's all I want!! I don't plan on visiting him at all I've decided (I'm not taking our children & have no one to watch them while I do) and now I found a job, thank God, so really won't have time for it anyway. This time is really passing by. I can't believe it's almost been 3 months since he's been gone. I can def. handle the next 3! Thank you everyone for your support & guidance & pushing me to snap out of it and live my life! I couldn't be doing it without you all!
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« Reply #56 on: December 14, 2009, 05:58:31 PM » |
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mamacita, Do I just call Graham to see if my L/O can have visitors while in receiving? Mine didn't think he could. But I would Luv to surprise him & see him on Christmas. 
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« Reply #57 on: December 14, 2009, 06:02:46 PM » |
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If you are his parent or wife - and can prove it (immediate family allowed initially), then I think it can be done. Do call first....things may be different for him as he's been in R&C for a long time....I went to visit my son when he was at Stateville, before being sent to his home institution.
Hope it works out for you - what a great surprise for him.
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« Reply #58 on: January 06, 2010, 11:05:14 PM » |
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i was wondring how often does an inmates projected parole date change if its going to change? some ppl have told me every six months to a yr. is this right?
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« Reply #59 on: January 06, 2010, 11:22:48 PM » |
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It depends whether your inmate qualifies for and participates in programs and schooling. If this is the case, after an initial wait period, it can be every 60 days (by the time you see it posted) or so.
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« Reply #60 on: January 06, 2010, 11:57:07 PM » |
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Earlier this week, I spoke to a girl in Records at Graham CC about my guy's earned good time from classes that have not been posted. She nicely informed me that it has been submitted to their office but they are so far behind they are trying to take care of the individuals with some priority. Meaning that if your LO's good time days will have an immediate effect on his outdate it will be changed more quickly. They are working their way down the list, but not to worry it won't get overlooked or lost in the meantime. That was all good news, but it still is nice to see that date appear sooner!!
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« Reply #61 on: January 09, 2010, 10:49:41 PM » |
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mamacita1 & coxy girl tanks for your reply all the info. it really helps.
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« Reply #62 on: January 10, 2010, 11:57:11 AM » |
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I'm going crazy!.....my L/O has been in receiving for over 7 weeks now in Graham...they have not mentioned anything to him about when he will be placed...The letter writing helps but the mail is so slow & I don't think he has gotten half the letters I've written to him. He is out of whiteouts so he can no longer write till they let them go to the store again sometime this week I think he said. I haven't seen or talked to him in over 9 weeks. Why is it taking so long to place them? They sent him before Thanksgiving so we had to go through the holidays without even a call. Is there anything I can do to find out any information on when or where he may be placed? Thank You for this site I don't know how I would have survived this long without it. Terri
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« Reply #63 on: January 10, 2010, 02:21:01 PM » |
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Frankly, I am surprised that while in R&C, he's been allowed commissary for write-outs. They don't do this at Statesville. I don't have any answers for you as to why he isn't placed yet at his "home" institution, but be comfort by the fact that you can at least write to each other.
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« Reply #64 on: June 13, 2010, 12:13:12 PM » |
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Hey all,
Anyone know what the food is like at Graham? My son is thinking of transferring there, but rumors where he is now tell him the food is not very good. He's very thin as it is and has GERD, so he tends to have a lot of issues with food. Any info would be greatly appreciated. Thanks all!
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« Reply #65 on: June 13, 2010, 01:48:25 PM » |
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My loved one says the food is okay - it's institutional food, not home cooking. One way many of the guys compensate for the lack of quality food is through commissary.
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« Reply #66 on: June 15, 2010, 11:21:34 AM » |
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Thank you so much for the info mamacital! I will tell my son.
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« Reply #67 on: June 21, 2010, 09:54:51 PM » |
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My L/O says its alright. He has told me a few times he wont eat the chicken he says the grease hurts his stomach. But he usually just gets things at commissary and eats out his box. Best of luck to you and your son.
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« Reply #68 on: June 30, 2010, 12:49:25 AM » |
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hello im very new to this site. my LO is at graham and im going up to visit for the first time on friday. does anyone have any advise for me at all. me and a friend are going. im hoping we get to see him. he wrote and said come see him so im guessing im on his visiting list. hes only been there 3 weeks. thats where he is staying tho. im very nervous about going. ive never been to a place like this lol. so any advise at all would be greatly appriciated. as far as what to wear what to bring in. how much money. and also about the vending machines should we eat before going. has anyone been recently to know how they are. im hoping maybe they have a lot of stuff in them so he can eat something a lil dif. this is his first visitor. so i know he will be excited. are we allowed to get our picture taken there. please any information would greatly help me out. whatever you can give me would be nice. thanks so much 
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« Reply #69 on: June 30, 2010, 01:38:29 AM » |
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Welcome.
Graham is extremely conservative about your clothes - no cleavage, nothing too tight, no skin on the midriff, and I would strongly suggest you avoid shorts.
I suggest going early if you are going on the weekend (at least about 10:00 AM), so you can avail the entire 4 hours you are allowed to visit, although if crowded, your visit may be cut short (2 hours).
When you come in, you will be asked to fill out a form and provide a drivers license. They will keep the drivers license and provide you with a key to one of the lockers. You are allowed to bring in nothing, except for what you are wearing, your key to the locker and the vending machine card. You will be waiting (if not a long line) for about 35-50 minutes (they have to call him down).
You will see a vending machine card where it accepts only cash. We usually put in $30.00 per visit, understanding that we may have some money left over (better than no money and they are ravenous). The guys really enjoy tasting different foods available. As for us, we don't usually eat/drink too much with him - we don't enjoy food from the vending machines.
You will be allowed to use the bathroom only at a pre-determined time once you are visiting. Therefore, I suggest using the bathroom in the visiting area before you get searched (they pat you down, ask you to take off shoes, and check inside in your mouth). You will then be stamped and will be buzzed in two sets of doors until you enter the visiting room.
Once there, you tell the officer whom you are visiting, and you will wait no more than 10 minutes. You and your inmate will be assigned a table. He will not be allowed to get up for any reason (you have to get what he wants from the vending machines), unless it is bathroom break.
You will be allowed to give him a hug and kiss (not the kind you'd exchange in the bedroom) at the time you see each other and at the time of departure.
Be nice and respectful to the guards/officers - most are nice, some have shown compassion, but every once in awhile you want to slap one of them for their insenstivity.
The first time, it can be a daunting experience, and even a bit humiliating to be searched - but you forget it all when you see your loved one. Enjoy your visit.
By the way, no photos are taken or allowed to be taken in the facility.
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« Reply #70 on: June 30, 2010, 08:18:18 AM » |
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About the clothing I will add I have seen several people the last couple times I've been to visit they won't allow like layers like a spaghetti strap shirt along with a jacket. I usually wear capris and a t-shirt to be on the safe side. Enjoy your visit :-)
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« Reply #71 on: October 27, 2010, 09:47:39 PM » |
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My LO, D, was in Vienna, but caught a charge and sentenced to Segregation. Since Vienna is a minimum security, they don't keep inmates who receive seg there. So, D was sent to Graham today to serve out his seg as well as the rest of his sentence. I'm going to be reading these boards, but is there anything else I need to know? Thanks in advance for any information or advice.
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« Reply #72 on: October 28, 2010, 02:11:28 PM » |
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Also, how is the mail? Is it pretty slow? Are there certain days with the phones, or is it everyday? I'm sure I will have more questions, thanks for any replies.
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« Reply #73 on: October 28, 2010, 02:48:03 PM » |
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Sorry to hear about your loved one, but I don't think he will dislike Graham that much. It's a facility that allows inmates to have keys to their cells and is relatively safe.
The incoming mail IS slow, but outgoing mail is okay.
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« Reply #74 on: November 16, 2010, 08:18:45 AM » |
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Could anyone tell me the average amount of time for incoming mail? Outgoing only seems to take a few days, but I'm wondering if D has even received half my mail yet. Thanks for any reply.
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« Reply #75 on: November 16, 2010, 08:42:45 AM » |
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The incoming mail for Graham is about 10 days out. Some of them will get it sooner and some later, the mail lady there seems to be catching up. jenplus2 if you ever want to ride, I try to go every other weekend and sometimes I spend the night and sometimes not. Just let me know plus I don't know where you are coming from. If you have any other questions just let ask and someone will have the answer.
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« Reply #76 on: November 16, 2010, 09:56:35 AM » |
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My LO is at Graham and the mail seems to run pretty smooth, 3-4 days from the time I mail it and the time he receives it. I mailed some photos Monday, 11/8 and he rec'd them on Sat. 11/13. I thought this was quick with the holiday being Thursday 11/11.
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Thank you so much for your responses. I was starting to feel like only a couple of us had LO's in Graham. Thank you shaynsgirl05 for the wonderful offer, I only live a little over an hour away, so I shouldn't have to much trouble visiting. If anyone live's farther out, and needs anything at all, please let me know... I would be truly happy to help. I just heard from D that they only gave them one commissary (which was the 18th), allowing them to double up, and that they are not giving them another until January. Is this accurate? I feel horrible because I didn't know, and wasn't able to send much money. One last question, as far as visits go, are you able to kiss, and hug your LO when you first get there, and when you leave? I haven't visited yet, but plan to the beginning of December. I have not seen my fiance since February 1st of this year, and that was in a court room. The last time we touched was December 8th of last year (almost a year now), the day he was arrested, so I am extremely excited to say the least, and would love to be able to kiss, and hug him, without getting in trouble. Again, thank you so much... I look forward to "chatting" more on this board.
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« Reply #78 on: November 19, 2010, 09:42:24 AM » |
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 You may hug and kiss when he arrives and before you leave. You can hold hands during your visit. Graham is on the card system for the vending machines, the card costs you a dollar and then you can put up to 35 on it. I would suggest you go during the week if possible if you get there early enough you can visit all day but on the weekends you may only get 2-3 hours because it gets very busy by early afternoon. They have been checking lockers so only take in what you need. They have been having a lot of people bring cell phones in and leave them in the lockers and ringing. Hope you have a good visit!
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« Reply #79 on: November 19, 2010, 10:52:50 AM » |
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shaynsgirl05, thank you so much for your kind words, and information on visiting. I know this sounds silly, BUT are you allowed to "kiss" your LO? I mean a nice, french kiss? NOT a sloppy, hot-n-heavy, bedroom kiss, but a "real" kiss... is that allowed, or just a simple "peck"? Sorry for the question, but I don't want to be embarrassed, or get him (or I), in ANY type of trouble. Thank you again. And the offer is still wide open for anyone that needs anything as far as visiting goes since I do live quite close. 
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« Reply #80 on: November 19, 2010, 10:11:32 PM » |
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jenplus2, I visit my LO 2 to 4 times a month, always on the weekend. They allow a kiss and hug at the beginning of the visit but at the end of the visit (if you're lucky enough to visit all the way til 4 pm) we usually get a very nice "long, passionate" kiss. My LO always teases me about how he looks forward to his kiss at the end. They also installed new tables a few months ago and you have to sit so far across from your LO if you're the only one on the visit. I live in Granite City also and try to go every other weekend, sometimes I may do 2 weekends in a row. I work Monday thru Friday and one weekday took off early to make a visit during the week, but the road repairs were so bad, it took me forever to get there. Please let me know if I can help in anyway or maybe you might want to share a ride. I wouldn't mind because I sometimes get bored riding alone. If you haven't seen him in a year, I KNOW you cant wait to see him!  Lets keep in touch.
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« Reply #81 on: November 19, 2010, 10:21:40 PM » |
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DTLsgirl, thank you soooo very much. I would love to keep in touch, and sharing rides would be absolutely GREAT! I won't be able to afford to go until the beginning of December, but after that, I plan to visit at least twice a month. I'm so excited, and can't wait for the next two weeks to pass. Thank you again, and please feel free to message me.
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« Reply #82 on: April 17, 2011, 11:16:49 PM » |
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There are a few of us here with LO's @ Graham. Are you looking for someone/something in particular?
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« Reply #83 on: April 19, 2011, 12:47:24 AM » |
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Yes, scottsbabyo8, jenplus i thought you had told me that, mine is in general population also....just was wondering had not heard any thing lately see my post about the debit cards.... but today the had food in the vending machine, not a slots empty and everything was up to date.
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« Reply #84 on: April 19, 2011, 08:24:09 AM » |
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Rotti, are the prices still the same for the vending machines?? 
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« Reply #85 on: April 19, 2011, 03:29:38 PM » |
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4.00 and up on the sandwiches,this is with this company. ... don't know about the new one. But I saw that the limit has been raised to 50.00
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« Reply #86 on: April 19, 2011, 03:41:59 PM » |
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i bet if they raise the card limit, then they will prolly raise the prices in the vending machines too..grrr.. i guess if they cant get us one way, they will get us another huh?? ugh 
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« Reply #87 on: April 19, 2011, 09:52:32 PM » |
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I also have a LO in general population at Graham. When I was there about two weeks ago, there was a sign posted about the new dress code for females and I asked the CO about it. I guess it is now ok to wear tanktops under other shirts as long the tanktop is not too low cut.
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« Reply #89 on: April 21, 2011, 09:53:40 PM » |
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Okay Mah, keep us organized and orderly. Thanks because I will get off topic in a heart beat
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« Reply #90 on: April 21, 2011, 09:55:45 PM » |
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I thank them for allow tank tops under clothing because a lot of this stuff is so thin it will show your bra and then you have to change clothes
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« Reply #91 on: April 21, 2011, 10:40:05 PM » |
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that is good about the tank tops under the shirts..
and hubby said he got my books that i sent him..they were in a box from the post office, priority mail..according to his letter, he got them tues. and i mailed them to him on sat..so that is good news..
it is taking about 4 or 5 days for them to get a letter, but i got his in 2 days..i will have to re-read his letters to see what else there was..i forgot..lol..
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« Reply #93 on: April 22, 2011, 10:26:18 PM » |
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Just a heads up... When I was visiting today, there were signs up saying that starting May 1 they will be using a new type of vending machine card and that the old cards and any money left on it will no longer be valid there.
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« Reply #94 on: April 23, 2011, 01:04:36 PM » |
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Hey, IPT family just got off the phone from hubby, I told him what the news the kids was watching said he said they did not move them at all, I ask him even when Litchfield had problem he said no.... I as him what do they do when it is bad weather he said the move them into the hall until it is over. He said he was coming in from work the other day and they would not let him go back to his housing unit until the threat was over just wanted to corrected, that... please forgive me I just want anyone to know how there love ones are doing if I learn anything. So if you know that something is not clear please let me know.
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« Reply #96 on: April 23, 2011, 07:01:37 PM » |
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Sorry, was just correcting something that i posted incorrectly
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« Reply #97 on: May 08, 2011, 12:37:56 AM » |
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Info about the new vending system at Graham... -In order to buy a new vending card, you need to have a $5 bill. -After you have purchased the card, you will find that you have $3 on the card to start with. -The new machines do not accept the old cards.
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« Reply #98 on: May 08, 2011, 10:22:54 AM » |
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Is the food any better? how much does it cost? I am going tomorrow and this info is right on time thanks.
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« Reply #99 on: May 08, 2011, 07:41:34 PM » |
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The prices were about the same, some stuff was a little more but there seemed to be more options. They replaced the old pop machine with two bottle dispensing machines. I think it was $1.50 a bottle. There are still two food item vending machines for refrigerated items. They added a frozen item vending machine that has ice cream, frozen dinners, pizzas, and hot pockets. They also upgraded the coffee machine. One thing that I didn't see in the machines was playing cards. Have a great visit!
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« Reply #100 on: May 09, 2011, 06:20:33 PM » |
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The process was not differcult at all....the CO in the visiting room said that the cards are ordered and should be in next week. I also saw sand bags on one of the yards. They are planning to help with all we have in IL. My hubby was so glad to get Ice cream you can see what you are buying, also the chicken is put in daily the CO said and it is prepared in Hillsboro at on of the deli. It is fresh YEAH
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« Reply #101 on: May 09, 2011, 06:24:48 PM » |
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yeahhhh that is good news..now everybody can enjoy the food in there..even ice cream...yummm
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« Reply #102 on: May 09, 2011, 06:42:57 PM » |
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While visiting I saw a trailer load of washers and dryers, so I asked hubby what was that about he told me that all the units were getting new ones.... Yeah my tax dollars
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« Reply #103 on: May 24, 2011, 02:00:25 AM » |
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How are you liking the new food choices????? has anyone seen the limit of money that can go on a debit poseted anywhere. Also the storm today was scary!!!!!!!!..... I went North of it
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« Reply #104 on: May 30, 2011, 01:25:01 PM » |
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My LO is waiting in county to go to Graham. He should be there within a few weeks tops. Yeah I think it's strange not many people on here have loved ones there. A lot of guys from the county jail here in Springfield go there. I've known quite a few personally that did their time there. Did you ever move to Springfield? Compared to Chicago, it sucks. But it depends on where in Chicago you are at. Springfield's a lot smaller and it's pretty boring here. There isn't much to do at all. There are a lot of different apartment complexes and houses for rent here and most of them are pretty cheap. If you're still looking into moving here I would tell you to start looking in the newspaper, you can look online at www.sj-r.com then go to the classifieds and houses or apt's for rent. It also includes rentals around the vicinity. Also try apartmentfinder.com, that lists the biggest apartment complexes here in town. You will probably have to put in a zip code. Try 62704, 62703, 62702. Hope this helps some! Has your hubby heard of any of the inmates being released early?? Do you know what they're doing with the new guys coming in with short sentences?
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« Reply #105 on: May 31, 2011, 09:27:32 AM » |
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IDOC is overcrowed, ur loved one is probably going into R&C at Graham. It is a coin toss for which parent facility they go to. If you are planning to move anywhere make sure it is what you want and the employment openings in your field. I have family in Springfield area, and we visit and have a very good time with each other. Also wait and find out where he will land before pulling up your nest.. also think about what would his parole plan will be after he will get out. hope this helped. I moved from Chicago to a very small town of about 5,000 people
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« Reply #106 on: July 01, 2011, 09:18:08 PM » |
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Does anyone know for sure how many books can be sent in at once? I thought it was 5 but someone told me it was more.
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Does anyone know for sure how many books can be sent in at once? I thought it was 5 but someone told me it was more.
4-5 depending on the prison.. Call the mail room of the prison he is at and ask, and also ask how to send them in. Some prisons only allow them to be sent in, in manila envelopes, no bubble padded envelopes or boxes.
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« Reply #108 on: July 02, 2011, 11:31:44 PM » |
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You can send a total of 5 books/newspapers/magazines at a time to Graham...make sure his name & # are on them...I always put them on the inside flap or 1st page. You can send them in a box or manilla envelope but no bubble mailers.
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« Reply #109 on: July 03, 2011, 06:23:18 AM » |
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« Reply #110 on: July 17, 2011, 11:44:02 AM » |
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Can anyone tell me a little bit about grahm. Is it dorm style or cells? how long of visits? How many times a day they got yard and day room and is it everyday? just need info please.
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« Reply #111 on: July 19, 2011, 03:05:42 AM » |
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I need help someone....!!!!! My boyfriend has been at graham since 7/05/11 and i havent heard from him no phone calls no visits??? How long do i have to wawit to hear from him ???? ALL CAPS edited out by Admin
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« Reply #112 on: July 19, 2011, 08:40:42 AM » |
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Can anyone tell me a little bit about grahm. Is it dorm style or cells? how long of visits? How many times a day they got yard and day room and is it everyday? just need info please.
It is cells, the visits during the week can start at 830 am and last till 4 if you want on the weekends they only guarantee you 2 hours because it is so busy. I think yard is once a day and they are out of their cells all day if they choose. They have a key to their cell and can come as go as they please except during count. I hope this helps you out!
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She's talking about him being in receiving at Graham. The admins don't like it when you cross post the same questions because it gets confusing. I think someone answered your question in the other thread that you asked on. Just be patient when asking a question and someone will answer you as quickly as they can.
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« Reply #114 on: July 19, 2011, 07:13:42 PM » |
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janet - your bf is in receiving at Graham. Unless he knows whether Graham will be his home institution, it appears he is awaiting a bed at one of the facilities. As soon as he is placed in his home institution, he will still have to wait a bit until in general population before he calls. I know not knowing is the most painful part of this, hopefully it won't be too long before you get a letter or phone call. Have you set up with Consolidated yet?
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I need help someone....!!!!! My boyfriend has been at graham since 7/05/11 and i havent heard from him no phone calls no visits??? How long do i have to wawit to hear from him ????  in R&C it takes a little while keep writing him. I spoke with my hubby tonite and their money is froze due to a computer problem they can't go to the store at all. to help ease your stress, it may be benefit you to go back and read getting started it in IDOC. It can be stressful and lonely but the more you read for yourself and learn how to survive the maze it will help you alot and there are some questions that can be answered but others but if you read it for yourself you are well educated on IDOC Welcome
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« Reply #116 on: August 07, 2011, 11:22:57 PM » |
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Did anyone know that at Graham they have a vegetable garden? Hubby told me the other day and they have been eating fresh vegetables from the garden... I am happy about that.
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« Reply #117 on: August 07, 2011, 11:45:05 PM » |
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Seriously?? I'd never heard this. That's awesome!
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« Reply #118 on: August 08, 2011, 09:58:31 PM » |
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You can see it from the visitor "lounge".
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yes you can, also some was transferred from R&C today
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« Reply #120 on: August 09, 2011, 09:30:02 AM » |
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I haven't been able to visit since January/February, so the garden wouldn't have been there. It's nice to know it is, that's cool.
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« Reply #121 on: August 09, 2011, 10:02:23 AM » |
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Did anyone know that at Graham they have a vegetable garden? Hubby told me the other day and they have been eating fresh vegetables from the garden... I am happy about that.
I know this isn't a Graham topic... but Hardin Work Camp does also. I think that it a wonderful thing.Then they don't eat all the junk food. God Bless 
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« Reply #122 on: April 19, 2012, 08:54:55 AM » |
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Hello im fairly new to the website and actually visiting the actual center so i was just inquiring about the actual visit at graham i.e can you touch do you have to buy you and your loved one food are you allowed to get up things of that natue i was also wondering about possible transportation like a bus i live in chicago and it would be alot easier to communte without me having to drive the while 5 1/2 hours any info or input is much appreciated thanks in advance
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« Reply #123 on: April 19, 2012, 04:54:23 PM » |
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I was at Graham last June ( I live out of state). You can hug and kiss when your loved one comes into the room, and when you leave There are quite a few food machines that you can get up and buy food from for your loved one. Just make sure you have enough money on the card. I have no idea about transportation. I flew into St. Louis and rented a car when I visited.
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« Reply #124 on: April 19, 2012, 05:32:44 PM » |
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I know that you are allowed a hug and kiss when you get there and when you leave, but do you know if you can hold hands during the visit? I know that some places allow this and others do not. My fiance is there and we are hoping that I will be able to visit soon. I just don't want him or I to get into trouble for doing something that is not allowed.
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« Reply #125 on: April 20, 2012, 12:10:52 PM » |
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Not sure about holding hands during the visit, I'd ask the guard when you arrive or just ask the guard that searches you before you go to the visitor room. I visit my son there and we don't hold hands..obviously! LOL Enjoy your visit.
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« Reply #126 on: April 20, 2012, 03:33:01 PM » |
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 Yes, you can hold hands throughout your visit! 
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« Reply #127 on: April 20, 2012, 06:19:32 PM » |
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That is AWESOME!!!! I can't believe that I am so excited about just getting to hold his hand. I guess it's the little things in life! LOL Now to just get through R&C so I can actually hold his hand instead of dream of it. :)
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« Reply #128 on: April 20, 2012, 07:23:16 PM » |
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That is AWESOME!!!! I can't believe that I am so excited about just getting to hold his hand. I guess it's the little things in life! LOL Now to just get through R&C so I can actually hold his hand instead of dream of it. :)
Just remember he may be in R&C at Graham but he most likely will not stay there. And not to make the wait worse for you but once he is out of R&C and transferred there is yet another wait for his visiting list and phone list to be approved. That could be another couple weeks longer after he is transferred.
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